Learning to Apologize-Week 3

June 28, 2011 by  

The hardest three words to communicate in the human language is saying “I  am sorry”.  Yet, if you have hurt someone, one of the first steps toward  healing  that broken relationship is learning to apologize with integrity. In this week’s podcast at Oasis-Church-NJ.com, we take a look at the biblical way to initiate restoration in broken relationships.

Join us as we continue  the  Getting Past Your Past series Sundays at 11AM at Oasis-Church-NJ.com. We meet at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside

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Single Parent Families

June 24, 2011 by  

single-parent-familiesThis may surprise you: There are now more single parent families (30%) in the US than two parent family households (24%). Yet, most churches continue to give a backseat to single parent families as the traditional nuclear family remains the primary ministry focus. This remains true even in NJ where single parent families (families run by single parents) have increased more than four times as fast as married-couple families since 2000.

According to our extensive online survey of singles and church attendance, the above facts leaves many single parents feeling like “second class citizens” and a large majority end up avoiding church all together. How sad!

Additionally, there are many difficulties surrounding being a parent, single or married, in the 21st Century, and  this is one of the reasons we are  beginning a 4 week Parenting Seminar Series beginning 7.17.11 at 11am at Oasis Church located at 1180 Spruce Dr, Mountainside.

Oasis Church and Single Parent Families Ministry

At  Oasis Church, one of our primary ministry goals is to minister equally to singles, single parent families and married couples. Therefore, if you are a single parent looking for a good church or support group in the Central NJ area, we want you to know that there is a place for you and your children at the OC in NJ.

We want to warmly invite you to join us in one of our Connect Groups for support, spiritual encouragement and friendship. You could also contact us about our single parenting seminars that will be taking place in different areas of Middlesex, Somerset and Union Counties like  Scotch Plains, Fanwood, Union, Mountainside, Cranford, Clark, Summit,  Springfield, Plainfield, North Plainfield, Garwood, Kenilworth, Watchung, Chatham,  Roselle, Roselle Park, Kenilworth, Millburn, Edison, Woodbridge, South Brunswick, Somerset, Franklin, Green Brook, Dunellen, Piscataway, New Brunswick, Perth Amboy, North Brunswick and many other locales.

Have kids between the ages of 0 and 5th grade? Feel free to  check out Oasis Kids Sundays at 11am your kids can have fun learning about God and enjoy interactive crafts, games and activities. We also, have an awesome Teen Youth Program as well, that meets Fridays

Overall, we realize single parenting is one of the hardest jobs in the world. That’s why our purpose at Oasis Church is to equip and encourage single parent families to thrive spiritually and emotionally as they do life together.

Oasis Church services singles and single parents from Scotch Plains, Mountainside, Summit, Clark, Cranford, Union, Springfield, North Plainfield, Fanwood, Plainfield, Elizabeth, Roselle, Roselle Park, Maplewood, Irvington, Millburn,Short Hills, Chatham, Madison, Watchung, Berkeley Heights

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How to Keep Open Lines of Communication in Relationships-8/7/11 at 11am

June 23, 2011 by  

nj parenting seminarParenting is a tough job.  But being a parent  in NJ is even tougher. So whether you have children or they’re just a twinkle in your eye at this point, you don’t want to miss “ParentHood”,  a 4 week Parenting Seminar  Series at  Oasis-Church-NJ.com  located at  1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside

Pastor Dave Butler, one of the speakers in this parenting series at Oasis, is a NJ certified parenting education teacher and did family mediating for a number of years over  a 26 year span of experience in public service in Family Court dealing with parents, their kids and the tough issues families face today.

Why Attend This Parenting Series?

We will be discussing  from a biblical viewpoint relevant topics that will include:

  • The top 5 gifts you can give your kids in the 21st Century
  • How to keep warm heart lines of communication open with your kids
  • How to build your kids’ self-confidence and yours as a parent

    So, whether they’re bawling, crawling, walking, talking, driving you crazy or asking to drive your car, kids are a gift from God .  But we could  probably all use some clear guidance and insight on how to raise them to be happy, focused and full of good old common sense, rather than leaving you frustrated, frazzled and fatigued. Hope to see you then.

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Learning to Forgive-Week 2

June 23, 2011 by  

Letting go of past hurts by learning to forgive others is very freeing. In today’s podcast we learn the what, Why’s and how’s of letting go by forgiving the past.

Join us  the next 4 weeks for Getting Past Your Past Sundays at 11AM at Oasis-Church-NJ.com. We meet at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside

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Mountainside Vacation Bible School-Central NJ Summer Kids Church Program

June 14, 2011 by  

NJ Vacation Bible SchoolLooking for a Central NJ Vacation Bible School this Summer for your kids? Vacation Bible School (ie: VBS) is a yealy ritual for many parents looking for some positive NJ summer activity for their kids. The good news is that this Summer during the week of July 11 to 15 Oasis-Church-NJ.com is celebrating its first NJ VBS week! We have an exciting happening called Summer Fun @ the Oasis, it takes place 6PM to 8:15PM for kids Kindergarten age thru 8th Grade, at the church located at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside. Oasis is a place where children can come to play games, worship, meet new friends, make a craft, and learn about God. There will be activities for parents as well.

NJ Vacation Bible School Registration Methods

While you can show up at the door the day of the Vacation Bible School, it would be easier to pre-register your child for this Summer church kids program by using one of several easy methods:

Hope to see you at our special Summer kids VBS church program! BTW: July 17 on Sunday at 11am  at Oasis we begin a very relevant 4 week Parenting Seminar Series which all will find practical  and useful!

Oasis Church ministers to Union, Somerset, Morris and Essex Counties, including Millburn, Greenbrook, Garwood, Kenilworth, Short Hills, Westfield, Scotch Plains, Springfield, Union, Newark, West Orange, Hillside, Fanwood, Summit, Chatham, Watchung, Berkeley Heights, New Providence, Cranford, Clark, Roselle, Elizabeth, Rahway, Linden, Plainfield, North Plainfield, Irvington, Maplewood, South Orange, Roselle Park, Greenbrook, Dunellen and more.

Breaking the Bondage of the Past-Week 1

June 13, 2011 by  

Many people live in bondage to their past experiences.  The wonderful news we learn in today’s Oasis podcast is that if we enter into all that God offers us in our relationship with Christ, our failures of the past do not have to dictate what happens in the future.

Join us  the next 4 weeks for Getting Past Your Past Sundays at 11AM at Oasis-Church-NJ.com. We meet at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside

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Why Are We Here?

June 7, 2011 by  


In the final week of our  Why Series, we examine the age old question of “Why Are We Here?” If you ever wondered about the meaning of life, then this will be a relevant topic for you

Oasis meets Sundays at 11am at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside.

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Oasis-Church-NJ.com 7.3.11 at 11AM!

June 6, 2011 by  

It’s hard to live in the present or think about bright hope for the future when you are stuck in the past. Many of us are so burdened with past hurts, shame, guilt or an overwhelming sense of being a failure based on past events.

Making Peace with Your Past

If you  you still struggle with what happened “back then”, and its hindering your enjoyment of life in the present,  then our  new 4 week series, Getting Past Your  Past, will be very relevant and helpful to you.  Imagine what freedom you could find by conquering your past and  laying those burdens down?

Join us  the next 4 weeks for Getting Past Your Past Sundays at 11AM at Oasis-Church-NJ.com. We meet at 1180 Spruce Dr in Mountainside

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